I have been divorced for many years. I devoted most my time after my divorce on working and raising my daughter. I never made time for me. I worked at a job in food service as an assistant manager for 13yrs. I needed a change and took a huge hit in my income. But at the time I made decision to change jobs, I did it for my sanity, and actually enjoy going to work everyday. I do enjoy my present job, but I am struggling. First yes, financially and its not always fun not having anyone to share things in my life. My daughter is 26 and planning her wedding. I do have a 22 mo. old grandson who is pure joy. But I find I am not so much.
Someone to spend time together. But not a live in situation. I prefer they tell me what it is they are looking for. I have spent all my life spoiling those I love or cared for and just would like to know what it would feel like to have that happen to me. I don't need for alot, but support, and some fun, and liking hanging with someone who works hard, and yet has that softer side. A friend to talk to about whatever and me a listener to whatever without feeling either has to hold back. I love My Red Sox, and I meant I am the hard worker. I work very hard and feel I am going backwards and it's not such a good feeling for a woman who has worked so hard her entire life.