So….Sugar daddies, I have a bone to pick with you. You may not be new to the sugar daddy dating world, but a lot of these sugar babies are. And to be able to get what you want out of your experience with these women, you’ve got to be more specific on what you are looking for. There seems to be a level of misunderstanding and guidance when sugar babies are constantly telling me that there is no one out there for them or that they are finding it hard to get noticed (and don’t you worry, I’m working with them on that as well)…
But let’s be clear about one thing, you are on this site for a reason, and I am here to shed some light on that reason for all sugar babies to see so that there is less “How do I do this?”
Instead of the usual information that you may be giving on your profile like: NSA, want to just play, contact for more details and we’ll see…etc, maybe I can direct you a little more on what kind of sugar daddy you are, so that these girls get a better understanding of what to expect. Don’t you think that will make it easier for all involved? I mean, maybe if sugar babies knew what type of sugar daddy you are, then they might have a better sense of how to act, what to do for you, how much time you’ll want to spend, and so on…
When I ask sugar babies to screen sugar daddies, it’s to help them figure out what kind of sugar baby they want to be for someone, thereby making the arrangement more mutually beneficial. I know these are pretty broad, but just to start, I have come up with a few basic types of sugar daddies, what type are you?
- “Casual” sugar daddies occasionally see their sugar baby, or babies (these daddies sometimes have more than one sugar baby to spoil) to nice dinners, as arm candy to events, the occasional shopping excursion, or a small allowance. It is by definition, the most NSA relationship of the bunch.
- “Active” sugar daddies may whisk their sugar babies off on trips or excursions at the drop of a hat. They like to be physically active and spontaneous with their sugar babies. This type of sugar daddy needs a sugar baby who is always available and youthful, so they can keep up and be able to do anything, anytime.
- “Exclusive” sugar daddies know what they want for their future and are more open to having a long term arrangement or relationship. This sugar daddy may be done playing games and looking to reap the benefits of a commitment down the line. They certainly have the means to take care of their sugar baby (usually a one-sugar baby man), but they would prefer not to just throw money around in the short-term.
Sugar babies, I’ll address these later with you, but Daddies, I hope this may help clarify what some sugar babies are looking for. And what you are as a sugar daddy will help you get what you want… I’m jus’ sayin