The Normalcy of Sugar Dating

I am constantly flooded by emails about how to get started with sugar daddy dating…The truth of the matter is, that I can give dating advice all-day long, and dating advice is no different from sugar daddy dating advice… They are one in the same, if I give you dating advice, use it in your sugar daddy dating life as well, because it’s the same game with the same rules… Sugar babies aren’t prostitutes, call girls, or whores, we are just regular girls who feel deserving of a quality man in their life.

I have worked hard ever since I was able, built my little empire, married once, a couple of kids, own my home, why in God’s name would I subject myself to spending time with some douche-bag who only works half as hard as I do? That is why I choose to date older men who can take care of their women…That is WHY I choose to spend time with older men, some married (Hey I’d like to be the woman in his life, most mistresses are), established, and secure in themselves no matter what they look like.

Dating men who are successful and my age is futile because if they are as successful, they don’t want to spend time with a woman who has other obligations, ie: kids and the like.. Or they are still douchebags who cannot handle dating a woman who is as successful as he is. I most certainly don’t want to date an older gentleman who doesn’t mind my kids but isn’t as successful as me either, so my solution?…Date an older, wealthier man than myself, who may have already had kids or not, one who doesn’t really give a shit about keeping up with the Joneses, one who appreciates spending time with me; because I am awesome!  This is one mantra (Or one like it), that sugar babies need to learn.. I may not be the hottest, I may not be the skinniest, but I do know how to treat myself and a man. I’m interesting, I have my own life, friends, and I’m not an addict.

I’m a successful sugar baby who deserves to relax once in a while.. I’ll call a babysitter, have my sugar daddy whisk me away for a night, we’ll spend time truly appreciating each other’s strengths, and at the end of the day, we get the best of both worlds… No fighting, no drama, just a mutually beneficial relationship of sorts…

That’s what sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships are all about, they’re just like any other dating situation, and that’s how you should approach them. Whether or not you are both looking for the same thing will come out pretty quickly, just like regular dating..Sometimes one person wants more than the other, or vice versa, it’s apples and apples. Just be true to yourself and honest with your sugar daddies. If you want more than they do, it won’t work.. They want more than you do, it won’t work; these are the ins and outs of dating…sugar baby dating…sugar daddy dating…mutually beneficial relationships…husband-mistress…and wife-pool boy….All the rules apply, the game is the same.

I’m jus’ sayin’

–Sugarsugar

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1 Comment to The Normalcy of Sugar Dating

  1. Anita Charlot's Gravatar Anita Charlot
    09/19 at 4:23 PM | Permalink

    Love your candidness!!! Continue being real!

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