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Lesson 4

Planning the first meeting

When it comes to planning the first meeting a lot of emotions are in play. Anxiety is in high gear, excitement, fear and happiness. Both parties have invested plenty of time getting to know each other, this first meeting is the time where chemistry is tested. It determines whether an arrangement will ever come into play.

I would suggest that the Sugar Daddy asks the Sugar Baby to choose the place. He should provide her with an area where he is comfortable with and there is minimal chance of running into anyone he knows. The SB should provide couple of places from which the SD can choose. This way both parties are comfortable with the location and that bit of anxiety is taken care of.

I would suggest that the first meeting takes place in a public place. Sugar Babys take the time to choose a place where you are comfortable with. Know how to get there and be on time. Meeting for drinks or coffee mitigate the risk of being stuck with someone you do not like for hours having lunch/dinner. Meeting for drinks always allows the option of moving on to dinner if there is some sort of a connection. If you opt out to meet for coffee, choose something other than Starbucks. The place is too busy to have a private conversation. However, a small coffeehouse allows for an intimate setting where both parties can enjoy getting to know each other.

Tip of the day: Limit your first meeting to 45 minutes to an hour. Then go your separate ways! If you feel like you should have spent more time with the other person… well that means that you should see each other again!

Happy meeting sugars!