Most of the emails I get requesting sugar dating advice are from sugar babies. Occasionally, however, I get questions from sugar daddies. I can guide sugar daddies like I can the babies, but because all of us want different things, I know I’m not the only one who can help.
The synopsis is that this guy is asking if he would make a good sugar daddy, and what we want as sugar babies. Here is his email:
Your welcome message invited me to email if I was in need of some advice – which I am. This is likely to be a little long, I should warn you; but I’m in absolutely no hurry for a response. I’m liking the site, btw, blogs are interesting and full of good info and fun to read.
I am, I would say, a very sincere wannabe-in-the-future sugar daddy, but I feel my life experiences and current circumstances lend me to understand the girls perspective of these types of relationships far more than I do the rich sugar daddy perspective – which is why I am writing to you.
I am finishing up my masters currently in order to establish my new career.
I expect to make $60,000 annually and could likely set aside $1,000 a month for a sugar baby. Clearly that isn’t as much as what seems the standard is, $3000 to $5000 a month, but that would be 20% of my income — extremely generous by anyone’s standards, I should think (20% of a $1 mil a year salary would be 17,000 a month, which is far beyond what most of these rich guys normally pay even though they could afford it).
So, in your experience, is this workable that I might be able to find a quality relationship for that level of support — someone that understands that the amount of money I am able to offer doesn’t equal the level of respect or feeling of worth I have for them — it is a reflection simply of reality that most people aren’t rich, but I’m literally willing to give till it hurts, because I respect them and want to build a good quality relationship – are there girls out there like this? What type of arrangement might I be able to find under those circumstances?
I’m an honorable man who is simply lonely, wanting companionship. Sex isn’t the driving issue here — that’s why I think I would make a good sugar daddy. What attracted me to this sort of relationship is the sheer honesty involved when it’s done properly – that would be a breath of fresh air to me.
I would think it would be awesome if you could offer some advice from your perspective.
Well, this was my response…Can someone else respond too?
Greetings to you back kind sir!
I appreciate your honesty and candid inquiry—I will try to answer you in the best way I know how. First of all, thank you for wanting to be honest with anyone and everyone, including your own family, that is truly an honorable characteristic of a man.
Secondly, the idea that the “norm” for a sugar baby allowance being $3000-$5000 is, in my opinion, not normal. There is no amount sufficient to call normal or average for any sugar baby. The thing is, if you can provide something for a sugar baby that she’d not already getting; a dinner out, a bill or two, or a small shopping trip, you can be a sugar daddy!
There are plenty of young sugar babies who have been mistreated like yourself who don’t require this $3-$5k that you speak of. There are women who want companionship like yourself who aren’t looking for someone to take care of all their bills for them. Sugar babies are gracious to stress less about things that they already take care of themselves.
If a sugar daddy were to take care of my cell phone bill every month ($100 or so), that’s worth something to me. The point is, you don’t have to be rich or well-off to do nice things for a woman, we’re not that hard to please.
I hope that helps! And I hope you don’t wait too long to ensure your own happiness!
Comments please!!
TooSpoiled writes: Diamond watch from Mr. World Traveler.
SugarCookie writes: Christmas present from my sugar daddy, a diamond tennis bracelet with diamond earrings.
LatinMama writes: My first sugar baby purchase, Gucci Purse!
Hotbod writes: I love Birthday's, Louis Vuitton and purse from Mr. Beemer.
Chocolatelove writes: One of my many shopping sprees with my sugar daddy, Christian Louboutin and a diamond necklace.
Sweetness69 writes: All I have to say is I love being a sugar baby!
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