Okay sugar babies, you had almost a week to think about what you want out of sugar daddy dating. And if you have followed along, you would have read the follow-up blog for the sugar daddies, advising them to figure out what kind of sugar daddy they are. So…let’s say that some of these sugar daddies are the type they claim to be; that’ll make it easier on you, on him, on everyone for Christ sake.
Now back to you sugar babies… If you think you are ready to get out there and just start doing the sugar daddy dating thing online, you’ve got another thing coming. You can peruse, check things out, make a little contact, you know, small gestures like that. When it comes to meet and greets however, you could ease into that…if not, shoot, go for it, it’s your call! But all things considered, I need to talk to you about your profile.
Profiles
Your profile… Let’s talk about what will set you apart from all the other sugar babies out there. Let’s talk about blah versus Rah! (sorry, that was all I could come up with for a skeazy rhyme)
Many of you have asked me about bettering your profiles… and well, I think you should too. As it turns out, besides a great photo to catch the eye of a pot(potential) SD, the content of your profile accounts for the rest of why an SD would choose to contact you or not.
First of all, sugar babies and ladies, you could stand to be more positive and articulate when you choose your wording to lure sugar daddies into your lair.
For example, if your profile reads something like: “i needs a sugar daddy to buy me a car.dont have da means to get that surgery i want will do most anything like chillin.mother of 2 kids no time to waste”
Do I really need to tell you what’s wrong here…. First of all, use the fucking spell and grammar check that’s already built into your computer! My computer had a hell of a time letting me type that, and I wanted to do it on purpose, so let technology work for you, it will manage most spelling errors, punctuation, grammar, and run-on sentences (the least you could do is pretend you’re an intellect).. Secondly, desperation is not your friend.. Rarely do pot sugar daddies enjoy coming to the aid of a desperate woman, with 2 kids to boot; it just reeks of the type of swindling that lands you driving a lemon home from the used car lot. Also, while you may think it’s helpful to just come out and say what you need desperately, don’t… Sugar daddies give because they want to, and usually because they think you work hard and are deserving of some of the wealth they have. Sugar daddies will rarely read that profile and think, “well now there’s a sugar baby who works hard, takes care of business, and herself..therefore she deserves to be pampered by me.” To be honest, I’m sure that a pot sugar daddy first clicks on your profile if he is attracted to you, reads the first couple of words, and doesn’t even waste a thought on them. As sad as it is, we are on the World Wide Web, where all people have to show for themselves are their words, point blank. Black and white letters, orchestrated in such a way that pot SD’s either ponder them and want to contact you, or don’t even waste a brain cell to read the second word, or pseudo-word if you weren’t exactly grammatically correct.
So please check your profiles and their content, would you want to meet you? Remove yourself from the situation if you can, are you interesting enough that you would want to get to know you better? Did you include information about yourself that would intrigue you if you stumbled across your own profile? If you answered “no” to any of those questions, get on it sugar babies! You want a sugar daddy to take you seriously and respect you? At least take the bloody time to write a decent profile! Shit, rip off some quotes from historical political leaders or poets while you’re at it, anything to stand out will serve you well when sugar daddies are speed reading through profiles.
I’m jus’ sayin’
TooSpoiled writes: Diamond watch from Mr. World Traveler.
SugarCookie writes: Christmas present from my sugar daddy, a diamond tennis bracelet with diamond earrings.
LatinMama writes: My first sugar baby purchase, Gucci Purse!
Hotbod writes: I love Birthday's, Louis Vuitton and purse from Mr. Beemer.
Chocolatelove writes: One of my many shopping sprees with my sugar daddy, Christian Louboutin and a diamond necklace.
Sweetness69 writes: All I have to say is I love being a sugar baby!
thanks, this is exactly what I wanted, can’t wait for your next post xx
Hi, something that would be good to know would be how to deal with family and friends.
How do you explain to your family and friends about your SD, cos he’s not like a boyfriend, so you can’t tell them that. But I think if you told them the truth they might not understand and see it in a bad light. And ok say you don’t tell them about him, what happens if he gives you a gift and they start asking questions, what should you say?
So tips on the subject would be very helpful
Thanks
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Kate Benedict