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Sugar Daddy Dating and Sugar Baby Personals

Sugar daddies will never understand sugar babies, and sugar babies are almost always able to understand sugar daddies (not rocket science).  Men and women come from opposite spheres, planets, and spectrum, making it difficult (and nearly impossible) for sugar daddies to know when it’s okay to send flowers to the sugar baby, or babies, in their life. Sending flowers to a SB can be risky, since the possibility of sending a “creepy” or “sweet” vibe is unclear. Before sugar daddies decide to send flowers to their SB, they should take some time to feel out where they stand in that relationship or arrangement.

Flower expert and aficionado, Jenna Devoss, has seen it all, from apologetic flower arrangements to anonymous ones. She filled me in on what she’s learned in the biz… I’ll let you know so you SD’s can avoid sending the “creeper” vibe.

The Anniversary: This biggie day is okay!  Sending flowers on your anniversary with your SB is a way to remind her that she is still fresh in your mind, body, and nether-regions (and yes, those parts are different from the rest of the male body—they have a mind of their own it seems).  Sugar babes still appreciate being treated to flowers after months or years of an arrangement or relationship.  Sending flowers can give you points as a SD by #1: The fact that you remembered in the first place is an achievement in itself, and #2: It is a gesture that has the potential to earn you a nice deed in return (and I’m we’re not talking flowers)

Valentine’s Day: First of all, if she doesn’t receive flowers on this day, she WILL feel like the only one who didn’t get any (even though the reality is just not so).  Secondly, if you are going to pick any day to show her you care, this would be it, since women secretly harbor resentment toward their lovers for not feeling like they are “worth” the fifty dollar trouble.

Special Occasions: Birthdays are okay events to most sugar babies, so sending flowers as a “gift” is definitely a good idea (balloons attached to them, however, are not).

Just Because: Sending flowers just because you want to can be the best and worst reason to send them.  It’s good if they are received when the sugar baby least expects them, and can be appreciated more because they are not obligatory.

Note: This is only appropriate in longer term relationships with sugar babies, or it can seem “creepy”

Another Important Note: Flower delivery is important, utilize the common service florists provide, do not show up with them yourself if you’ve never met her friends, family, co-workers, or anyone else that might otherwise be present when she receives them. If in doubt, always send flowers to the workplace.

When NOT To Send Flowers

After the First Meet and Greet: In Jenna’s opinion, this tends to exude the “desperate” vibe and I couldn’t agree more.  Wait a few dates; chances are 50/50 that your sugar baby will go out with you again, if there was some sort of “connection,” so just wait…

When Trying to Woo a Sugar Baby: This will not work for many reasons but I will name you two: #1, It is perceived as “creepy” 99.999% of the time, and #2, It may corn hole a SB saying yes ONLY because she doesn’t want you to harm her… Get it?

During “time-apart”: Again, this screams “creepster in desperation”.  It will not help things; you cannot change the way someone feels or acts toward you, so save your energy for someone who gives a shit.

To Show Off or Try to Impress: There is no bigger mistake than a sugar daddy sending flowers to try and impress a SB.  Showing your ability to buy a few thousand roses for the hell of it will only cause her to either expect that type of spending all the time, or run like hell. And the odds of one outcome over another are not 50/50..It’s more like 5/95, and the odds are NOT in your favor, you do the math.

Those are but a few of the guidelines of sugar daddies sending flowers to their sugar babies, thanks in part from Jenna Devoss, flower extraordinaire.

Just remember: ALWAYS be sure to use a condom, to avoid the plague and vulgar language…