I haven’t been a sugar baby for long. In fact, I’m pretty new to the whole world and game of dating wealthy older men. It never occurred to me that I would find it so appealing! I’ve always been attracted to older good looking men (with gray hair), but I always assumed they were just crushes and wouldn’t ever go to the next level.
In my quest to find my perfect man or Mr Right, I found a lot of heartache. Men who I found attractive were looking for someone younger, and men who were attracted to me were, well older than I was looking for. Most of the men who were drawn to me already had been married or had kids. Since I am fresh out of college, I waffle with the idea of getting married and having kids—the nuclear family, so the idea of going on dates with men who have already had those experiences is hard to swallow. (gulp tee hee)
In my insecurity of feeling too old for the men I was initially drawn to, some of the older prospects were offering to help me out with grad school (which is about the cost of an arm and a leg, if you didn’t know) but then I was like, well what do they want in return I wonder?…
I responded to a sugar daddy (Mr. D) who was interested through an online sugar daddy dating website, we had pretty good rapport, considering I had no idea what he looked like, and he was 20 years older than me. I agreed to meet him (Mr. D), sight unseen, at a hip little local lounge for a drink. I tried not to be late (I even set my watch 20 min fast), but something made me late, as something always does, and I was 10 minutes behind schedule. He was patiently waiting for me, and he didn’t even bat an eye at my tardiness!
I was taken aback by how handsome Mr. D was, so much like the former crushes I always had! He was a complete gentleman, put together, and smelled so good when he leaned in to hug me “hello”. Our conversation went off without a hitch, and I jokingly asked him about what sort of arrangement it would take for him to help me go to grad school. In his mild-mannered way, he explained that it would be whatever I wanted it to be. He said that he liked the idea of helping me better myself, and that he thought I’d be busy doing the grad-school thing anyway, so he’d have plenty of time to have his own life… Sounds too good to be true, right?
I’m going to give it a try! After much conversation over multiple dates, Mr. D gave me a down payment toward the first semester of my first year of grad school! Woo hoo, we’ll see how this goes!
TooSpoiled writes: Diamond watch from Mr. World Traveler.
SugarCookie writes: Christmas present from my sugar daddy, a diamond tennis bracelet with diamond earrings.
LatinMama writes: My first sugar baby purchase, Gucci Purse!
Hotbod writes: I love Birthday's, Louis Vuitton and purse from Mr. Beemer.
Chocolatelove writes: One of my many shopping sprees with my sugar daddy, Christian Louboutin and a diamond necklace.
Sweetness69 writes: All I have to say is I love being a sugar baby!
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