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Sugar Daddy Dating and Sugar Baby Personals

The question of the existence of fake sugar daddies is not a philosophical one. It is real, present, and it comes up often enough to devote some time and energy into. Phony sugar daddies can be found on sugar daddy dating sites, conventional dating sites, out in the wild, and at your local bar (basically anywhere men can be found).

Want to arm yourself with fake sugar daddy knowledge? Then you’ll need to know things like:

• How to spot one (even ones in camouflage!)

• What to look for

• How “fake” ones act as opposed to real ones

Treating sugar daddy dating almost like a real business transaction or play book play is the way to go.

As one sugar daddy so eloquently put it, “Make your tolerance for bullshit low, have a goal in mind, what and when you want it, and stick to the plan!”

Spot a phony sugar daddy in an instant when they provide bogus financial woes. My favorite examples of fake sugar daddies are the ones who claim (or blame):

• Poor economy/recession
• Expensive family obligations
• Slow season for business
• Money is currently tied up in investments

All of those being reasons of exactly ‘why’ your pot sugar daddy cannot commit to any sort of arrangement at this time, but he still wants to see you–pfft, yeah right!

Committing to a sugar baby arrangement quickly can be too much, I understand, but if I show up and order a drink and my pot SD sticks with water because he already ate or worked out or something, I guess I’ll be getting the tab? … Gee, thanks!

The phrase:

“If it happens once, shame on you; if it happens twice, shame on me,” holds true for these types of situations as well.

Question: How many times can one said sugar daddy stand me up or make me go dutch?

Answer: Just once.

Question: How much can a supposed sugar daddy be wishy washy or have cold feet?

Answer: Yep, you guessed it– Just once.

Maybe it seems abrupt or cold (pardon the pun, if you please), but when someone either stands you up or flakes out, they aren’t respecting your time or you.

It doesn’t take rocket science to figure out when someone is interested in spending time with you or not. Remember to judge actions, not words or verbal cues when discerning whether this or that sugar daddy wants anything to do with you.

Scenario: He wants to see you again

Actions Taken: He will make plans with you, give you notice, call or text, and follow through with his end of any arrangement.

Scenario: He is either not interested or a fake/phony

Actions: He will act with indifference and/or disrespect. Skirts your calls, cancels last minute, limits his communication and excitability in seeing you.

The higher your standards are, the less likely you’ll be to stumble across fake sugar daddies who will give you the run-around. What you want is a sugar daddy who wants to spend time with you, one who will appreciate all you do for him. Come on sugar babies, you are worth it, you deserve it!