I’m sure everyone remembers when Demi Moore started dating Ashton Kutcher, Madonna had a “boy-toy”, and that somehow started a phenomenon in non-celebritydom where financially successful women sought out young and attractive (albeit penniless) men. Emerged from this hot-mess was a new female, the “Cougar”.
New reality shows launched, showcasing battles between the said “cougars” versus the “sugar babies”. Feminism was at an all-time high; women who are fiscally comfortable, have already been married with kids and divorced, now wanted the cajones in relationships…. Really?…
Yeah, I’m going to have to call bull-shit on that one. Sugar babies are the closest thing to genetic perfection of what a woman should be. I used to think that this was solely my opinion, but come to find out, our species as females have always been inclined to seek out the protector and provider. Those men tended to be older, having more experience in actually knowing what it took to provide for their mates. Why would time change that innate need in us? What, because we can make more money, provide for our significant others and our children? Time doesn’t just change something like that.
It’s a façade when women stake the claim of not needing a man. Yeah, so what? Go ahead… Work your asses off for half the pay, grow old and wise, obtain 50 cats or more, see if I care– Those women die alone, the line ends with them, it’s survival of the fittest at it’s best.
I say, let those women be, in their quest to the top, not needing a man. Pfft! I need a man, want a man, and not just any man, the kind of man who can provide for me and my kin for generations to come! Isn’t that the very definition of sugar daddy dating? It’s innate, inherent, and likely that you cannot fight the urge to be a spoiled brat anyway, so why go against it? Date men who are older, more mature, and can provide for you and your entourage!
This “cougar” thing is not only passé as a trend, but it doesn’t even follow the species-wide need to feel safe and taken care of, you cannot always do that for yourself. The “cougar” lifestyle puts the younger man in the sugar baby role, allowing them to take advantage, ultimately becoming the weaker partner anyway…
I don’t want a frail or meek sugar baby(boy) for myself, I want a man to take control, grab the reigns, and have the cajones to say: “Come here baby…Now…I said NOW”
Then follow it with: “I got this for you….”
I’m Jus’ Sayin—
TooSpoiled writes: Diamond watch from Mr. World Traveler.
SugarCookie writes: Christmas present from my sugar daddy, a diamond tennis bracelet with diamond earrings.
LatinMama writes: My first sugar baby purchase, Gucci Purse!
Hotbod writes: I love Birthday's, Louis Vuitton and purse from Mr. Beemer.
Chocolatelove writes: One of my many shopping sprees with my sugar daddy, Christian Louboutin and a diamond necklace.
Sweetness69 writes: All I have to say is I love being a sugar baby!
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