I saw when I was reading the SugarSugar.com blog that Clyde had spent a few posts discussing whether or not to date multiple sugar daddies. So I wanted to put in my two cents on that topic since I’ve had a bit more experience than him juggling sugar daddies.

Back in the old days before I could use a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com, I was lucky enough to have one sugar daddy. I would never have even considered juggling multiple sugar daddies. But now, thanks to SugarSugar.com, A sugar baby like me can have multiple wealthy men acting as her millionaire sugar daddy. But there’s only one of me and, well, I’ve had up to seven of them at once, so giving enough attention to each one can get tricky.

First of all, juggling multiple sugar daddies isn’t easy. And honestly, for most girls, one sugar daddy benefactor is enough. I got to that seven number in my earlier days of discovering online sugar daddy dating because these sugar daddy sites made it so easy to find a sugar daddy. But I wouldn’t do it again. These days I tend to keep two, and at most three. Any more sugar daddies than that and it’s exhausting.

My advice to you on whether or not to have multiple sugar daddies is to consider how demanding each one is. If one sugar daddy is trying to see you just about every night, you should probably stick with one (and expect him to compensate you appropriately… it is, after all, a mutually beneficial relationship). However, if one of your sugar daddies is married, you can probably manage more since he won’t always be able to see you.

You’ll probably remember I wrote a post about sugar baby dating on the Tyra Show. And before that, Dr. Phil did a sugar baby dating show as well. What do all of these sugar daddy dating specials about online sugar daddy dating tell us? They tell us that Trash TV loves sugar babies.

I can’t blame them. I love sugar babies, too, but for different reasons. Still, the Trash TV infatuation with sugar babies and sugar daddy dating sites like SugarSugar.com presents a rare instance where most of us who are actually sugar daddies or sugar babies are proud of the recognition. We’re proud of the opportunity to tell our side of the story. People who have never tried to maintain a mutually beneficial relationship judge sugar babies and sugar daddies, but shows like Tyra and Dr. Phil give us the opportunity to explain just how much sense mutually beneficial relationships actually make. It gives us a public forum in which we can voice the logic. And when we have that opportunity, sugar daddy relationships start to make sense. People who hear me explain why I date sugar babies often have SugarSugar.com memberships within days. When that scale gets magnified to a national television audience… it just means more sugar babies for me to choose from.

So with that logic, you might start noticing SugarSugar.com ads appearing in those same Trash TV shows that try to exploit sugar babies. Specifically, SugarSugar.com is running sugar daddy dating ads on the Jerry Springer show. It only makes sense, right? Trash TV tries to exploit sugar babies and sugar daddies, we explain ourselves on those shows and it makes sense to people, and then we use those same programs to show people how they can find a mutually beneficial relationship.

If you’ve found SugarSugar.com thanks to the Jerry Springer ads, let me be the first to welcome you to the most rewarding kind of online dating you’ll find. Sign up for a SugarSugar.com membership, find a sugar baby or find a millionaire sugar daddy online, and see why mutually beneficial relationships just make more sense.

If we look at the definition of sugar daddy at dictionary.com, it says there that a sugar daddy is slang for “a wealthy, usually older man who gives expensive gifts to a young person in return for sexual favors or companionship.”

So there you go, in exchange for “sexual favors” or companionship, a sugar baby receives expensive gifts such as jewelry, signature clothes, money, and a lot more. That’s what a mutually beneficial relationship is. No, you can’t compare this to prostitution since in prostitution you are required to pay a fixed amount every time you go to bed with a prostitute. There is no such requirement in sugar baby or sugar daddy dating.

When someone asks me what a mutually beneficial relationship,is I always say, “Let’s just put it this way. You have sex with your girlfriend/wife and give them nice gifts on occassion, right? Does that mean she’s a prostitute? Of course not.” Same goes for sugar babies. A sugar daddy gives expensive gifts to his sugar baby because he is just showing his appreciation for being a great companion.

So, what is a mutually beneficial relationship? Visit www.sugarsugar.com and find out more about it.

1. I’ve been starting with the obvious thoughts in all my other posts… why stop now? The obvious benefit of multiple sugar babies is lots and lots of sex with multiple girls (if that’s your thing, obviously). Enjoy!
2. Having many sugar babies eliminates boredom. And let’s be honest, no matter how much we like someone, we all get bored with our partners. Luckily, in a mutually beneficial relationship, it’s kind of part of the deal that you can get lots of sexual partners and/or dating partners. As a result, it’s harder to get bored.
3. For most people, a dating lull can be as bad as a bad relationship, which is why they insist on staying in bad relationships. So if you loathe that “alone” time when you’re between relationships, using online sugar daddy dating sites like SugarSugar.com can keep you well stocked with sugar babies so you’ll never have to worry about not having someone when you want her.

Since I’ve been providing other sugar daddy dating tips for first dates, I figure I might as well continue that trend today and mention one other important thing about the first date with your online sugar baby you found with you sugar daddy personal at SugarSugar.com. When you take your sugar baby out for the first time, don’t take her anywhere you’ve never been before.

I know this piece of advice might seem to contradict my Monday sugar baby dating tip about not wanting a new sugar baby to know where you live, but where you go is different from where you live. The disadvantage of taking a sugar baby someplace new is that it’s hard to come off as a high-roller if no one knows who you are. You’re going to get treated just like any other schmuck in the place. But if you go to a restaurant where you’ve been ringing up four digit tabs for years, they’re going to treat you like the VIP you are. Translation: you’ll look like a perfect millionaire sugar daddy.

The Billionaire Sugar Daddy isn’t necessarily a “billionaire”… though he might be. And if he’s not really a billionaire, he’s pretty damn close. What this means for you is unlimited anything from your rich benefactor. Fancy cars. Expensive vacations. Jewelry. Clothing. You name it… you can get it. But it comes with a catch. Don’t expect to be the only sugar baby on the arm of a billionaire sugar daddy. You might not even be the only sugar baby on his arm at any given time. It’s still a mutually beneficial relationship, and you’ll still have unbelievable perks, but if you’re the jealous type, know that you’re not likely to have a Billionaire Sugar Daddy to yourself.

In my experiences there are three types of Sugar Babies. I’m not making a judgment on which type of sugar baby you should want if you’re a millionaire sugar daddy interested in a mutually beneficial relationship. I’m just letting you know what to expect.

Sugar Baby Type 1: The Professional

Don’t worry guys… I don’t mean that kind of professional. I just mean that theses are the kinds of Sugar Babies who know exactly what they’re looking for when they browse SugarSugar.com sugar daddy personals. They view being a sugar baby like it’s a job. And they’re looking for rich benefactors who will support them in their profession.

If you’re worried about a professional sugar baby being cold and indifferent, that’s not the case at all. Professional sugar babies are great at being sugar babies. If you’re worth a million bucks, they know exactly how to make you feel like a million bucks.

Sugar Baby Type 2: The Sean Connery

While some sugar babies try to find wealthy older men to serve as rich benefactors, others young girls simply prefer more mature men. And can you blame them? If you were a girl, would you rather have some jocky frat boy treating you like an object and making you go halfsies on all your dates, or would you rather have a mature, kind, sensitive older man who can pamper you and worship you?

I call these types of sugar babies “The Sean Connery” because… well… they’re tired of frat boys. They want a Sean Connery.

Sugar Baby Type 3: The Arm Candy

Some girls are simply hot. They know it. We know it. Everyone knows it. When you get a smokin’ hot girl who wants to be a sugar baby, she’s generally the type of sugar baby meant to be shown off. You bring her to fancy events. You wine and dine her. And you savor every minute with her not because she’s the love of your life, but because she’s simply beautiful.

That’s not to say the other types of sugar babies aren’t hot. But we all know there’s a difference between a hot girl and a gorgeous woman. And if you’re a smart sugar daddy, you call up the gorgeous sugar baby when you need to make an impression.

Editor’s note: If you thought this was interesting you should check out our list of sugar baby types.

This sugar baby was a keeper… or she seemed to be. She’d been using the SugarSugar.com for a while, as well as seeking arrangement, a more spammy sugar daddy dating site. I like that in my sugar baby. I want a girl with experience. The millionaire dating game isn’t for newbies. They need to know what they’re here for because a sugar daddy relationship isn’t like their frat boy relationships of last year.

The problem was this sugar baby was too experienced. After a great night of chatting her up and drinking, I was starting to work the “let’s get heading back to my place” routine when she looked at me very soberly and said, “Look… I like you a lot. But you’re not the kind of guy I’m looking for right now. You’re just not flashy enough. And I know that the guys with the most money are generally the ones who don’t throw it in your face, but I want the guys who try too hard. I want a sugar daddy who thinks he needs to pick me up in a Rolls, take me to the fanciest restaurants, and all that other high-roller stuff.”

My style for millionaire sugar daddy dating is simple. I take my girls in cabs. We go to places I don’t have to wear a tie (or buy $500 bottles of $20 vodka). I want companionship in the places I want to be… not the place where I pretend to want to be seen. It’s not that I can’t afford that VIP liquor, the nice steak, or the fancy car. I just don’t need to play games about it. When I’m in the mood to take my Maserati to go get a $200 fillet, I’ll do that. But when I want to take a cab to hang out at a quiet dive bar, drink a Bud Light, and eat a burger, I’m going to do that, too. But at least this girl was honest. And we fucked. But I guess I won’t be seeing her again. Oh well… there are plenty of other fish in the sugar baby sea.

I have grown accustomed to never paying for a thing, dining at the finest restaurants, sipping champagne just because. I have been known to go wild at Neiman Marcus and jet off to a weekend get away last minute… first class only!

However, one of my favorite memories happens to be one which does not involve any of the things mentioned above.

I was working late for couple of nights and my SD at the time was asking me if I had been taking care of myself. The topic of food came up and I mentioned that the places that deliver to my job are not very tasty so I have been going without dinner. That same night there was a delicious assortment of sushi delivered to my job. The delivery came from the restaurant where SD and I had our first date. I emailed to thank him for the dinner to which he replied “I cannot have my girl going without good food. I have spoiled you this far and it is only fair to continue doing so.”

While this particular incident did not cost as much as a new pair of Choos it showed me the sweet and sensitive side of my SD. It just goes to show that a little gesture can go a long long way.

What is your favorite sugar memory?