When deciding what kind of a sugar baby you are, also think about whether or not these are genuinely your character traits… Also, you may find that in certain circumstances or arrangements, you are either a combination of a few different sugar baby types, or are acting out a specific type for that specific SD. Any way you go about it, alter-ego or not, here are some of the types of sugar babies out there, which one are you?

Innocently Naïve SB- The virgin of sugar babies, these are the good girls, the inexperienced, in need of spoiling and guidance. This type of SB is sought out by SD’s because they are most likely to be “trainable” and usually aren’t too manipulative. There is a little uncertainty residing with this SB as she may be just getting her feet wet, not knowing what she’s getting into or whether she’s staying.

Gold Digger SB- Gosh, don’t you just love that term? Popular hip-hop music presently reminds us of the negative connotations the so-called “gold diggers” have, but I don’t see the problem. These SB’s like the finer things in life, if you’ve got it, then she wants it. These refined SB’s are probably the most attractive SB’s overall, and they feel deserving of nothing less than the best. Either they’ve worked hard for their money and expect you to treat them better than they treat themselves, or they may be accustomed to a certain lifestyle from a previous marriage, but these SB’s are label whores (again, not a BAD quality).

Seeking Marriage SB- Not your one-night-stand kind of sugar baby, this SB wants you to ride in on a white horse (and be hung like one) to rescue her from her life. She wants to be taken care of and she wants true love. She wants the companion, best-friend, lover, and all the other things that sugar daddies may or may not cringe at, although usually the former. Some SD’s are looking for the same thing….just probably not in those words.

Business SB- This sugar baby has goals, independence, and seeks opportunity. She is not afraid to soak up whatever business advice sugar daddies have that got them to where they’re at. These SB’s are quick learners, sometimes manipulative, and are overall inspiring to be around because they are such sponges for your knowledge (when’s the last time YOU didn’t want to talk about yourself?).

Attached SB- Otherwise taken, this sugar baby needs something from her sugar daddy that she isn’t getting at home. This may be the most likely NSA arrangement as these SB’s usually want to stay in their relationships with their significant other. Sugar daddies and sugar babies have needs alike, so why not share a cab and get what you both want? This type of sugar baby does really well with a married SD as both parties understand the need for discretion well.

Figure out what type of sugar baby you are, make it known to pot SD’s in your profile, and let the pieces fall where they may…

I’m jus’ sayin’

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This got me thinking about the roles that I play as a sugar baby. There are plenty of alter ego roles that I play in my daily life when I’m sugar daddy dating.  Now, I don’t always dress Lady Gaga style with my stilettos made to look like slinkies, long trench coats with trains, and wigs du jour… Well, sometimes… But more so, if I ever need to look like I belong somewhere else, a dungeon or strip club, I have the means to do so. I know that when a sugar daddy has a sugar baby like me, he can count on visual excitement with the many looks that I can pull off for him. It’s like I have an on-set wardrobe, like a costumer or artistic director, ready to go when there’s a scene change.

The importance of having a look for any, and I mean ANY occasion, is that you are a sure hit with any sugar daddy, just let your imagination, or his, lead you. When a partners have been together for a long time, some therapists tell them to try the whole “role play” thing in and out of the bedroom in order to spice things up..I say, HELL yeah, and why do you have to be together for a long time to pull out those guns? Variety is the spice of life, right? If you see a pink rubber suit on sale for half off, don’t even think about hesitating on that purchase, you never know when you’ll be in a situation where you’ll want to pair that up with a matching wig and pumps, the “pink rubber machine” is what I like to call that outfit…Ooh the sugar daddies love that one! On a side note though, don’t try to get into it when you’re wet, that shit aint going nowhere, you’ll need oil!  It’s kind of like wearing a slip and slide…

Alter egos are so much fun when you’re sugar daddy dating, they allow you the literal flexibility of becoming whomever, whenever.. I’m jus’ sayin

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Your decision to look into sugar dating, whether you are a sugar baby, sugar daddy, or otherwise, is one that people have been making since the beginning of time. That “type” of relationship is one which mirrors most interpersonal experiences.

Have you ever been in one of those relationships where, instead of breaking things off completely, you sort-of let things waver for a while, finally letting it fade to black.  Like a stage house play, right before the intermission; the lights dim, there’s no clapping or standing ovation….Just a long line to the bathroom.  And maybe, in this type of relationship, you feel the end near, during the pause….but you just can’t leave.  You’re waiting, hoping for the best to come, if you just hold out a little while longer, it’ll get better, it HAS to!  During Act two of this type of relationship, you are still gaining something out of it, right? I mean sure, it’s not all roses and kittens, but the sex, if there is any, is alright (insert question mark here)….. and then the final act ensues.

Ugh,  you let these relationships hang on because you get something out of it.  That’s why you sit through the whole second act of the stupid play without as much as a nap, because you get some sort of satisfaction from it!  Why does anyone necessarily DO what they DO?!?  Because they have something to gain! Sugar daddy or baby dating is the same, without the extra acts and boring scenes.

We are with one another, spend time with each other, because we want to… because we are getting something out of it, end of story.  Even if all else is crap, the sex is ok, and the time spent is wasted at best… deep down, there is some ego-driven, albeit menial,  benefit that you get out of spending time with someone you don’t really want to.  Maybe those are the ebbs and flows of interpersonal relationships as a whole.  Sugar babies and sugar daddies alike, benefit exclusively by spending time with one another, gaining satisfaction in the ways they see fit.  But that’s just like any other relationship ever had, isn’t it?

My advice,  you should stay for the standing ovation.

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To answer the first question, I believe that men are just naturally polygamous. Since ancient times, history tells us about kings, emperors, pharaohs, and their numerous concubines. Young and sexy beautiful women have always been the weakness of men. A classic example is the biblical figure called Samson. And for a more recent example, who could forget about former President Bill Clinton.

My answer to the second question is, it’s not that a sugar daddy is not happy with his wife anymore. If he were, divorce papers would probably be ready and just waiting for the John Hancocks. But no… most sugar daddies still love their wives. They just want to have someone younger to play with. And there are times that there’s something wifey doesn’t want to do which sugar baby is pretty much willing to do.

As for families, I think sugar daddies love their families despite the fact that they’re playing around with younger women and looking for threesomes of one form or another. These are the sugar daddies who just enter mutually beneficial relationships for the excitements and joy a sugar baby can bring. They’re not actually hoping to leave their families and make a new ones.

Now that you know a bit more about how to be a sugar daddy, or why someone is a sugar daddy, it’s time to try it yourself! So if you are a sugar daddy seeking a mutually beneficial relationship with a younger woman, go check us out. You’ll find plenty of young and beautiful sexy women in there seeking for the same thing.

If you’ve ever had dates like these from a sugar daddy, they can either be quite intense and full of passion, or they can be most closely akin to watching paint dry.  Mine was the latter. If the wealthy men never treated me to anything extravagant, it would have been easy to cut out early. Unfortunately, this was the sugar daddy who already treated me to a 745i BMW a month ago or so. Now don’t get me wrong, when he and I fuck, there are some fireworks, but then they quickly fade to sparklers, then to those annoying trick birthday candles that you practically have to spit on to blow out. And even with there being some chemistry in the bedroom, unfortunately, he’s not on Viagra or Cialis, and that gives him an expiration date of ten minutes or so into the date. I wish sugar daddies weren’t so proud of their sexual masculinity all the time. The truth is, after a certain age, just like we sugar babies eventually come up against, things are bound to either break down, work slower, or need oil. Ya, kind of like a car sugar daddies! If your stuff isn’t working like it used to, please, please allow yourself , and treat us with, the opportunity of taking an oral prescription that will help in that department.

“You take care of  me, I’ll take care of you,” is what you should say when you’re sugar daddy dating. Next time I spend 24 hours with my sugar daddy, I’ll be sure to crush up those little blue pills I got from my Mexico, slip them in his drink, then let him take me in the back seat of my new car when they kick in!

I’m really not fond of watching paint dry, and if I don’t have to have that experience soon I’ll be the wiser. There’s got to be more at SugarSugar.com for me!

There are times that your sugar daddy will require a lot of attention, and times when he’ll want you to split.  Do your best to make sure that your sugar daddy always has what he needs, a smack on the rear or a kiss on the cheek, whatever the occasion calls for.  No matter what kind of time your sugar daddy has available to spend with you, it is your responsibility as a sugar baby to make sure that it’s quality time, not quantity time!

He wants to watch back-to-back James Bond flicks with you all weekend?  Then be the best Pussy Galore ever!

I like to meet potentials right after work. Therefore, I end up attending dates in my very conservative work attire. A pressed french cuff shirt and black pants or a skirt on par with pumps is the name of the game for me.

If you are meeting some of them later on in the night a simple black dress will do you wonders. Pair that off with pearls and sexy shoes is sure to leave him speachless.

However, if the meeting is a bit more low key (a-la-starbucks), opt out for a tunic and leggings. A nice pair of slim fitting jeans paired with a cute top always does the trick.

Avoid wearing too revealing of an attire. You do not want to look like someone he picked up off the street. Being sexy is great but being slutty sends the wrong message.

Accenting your “assets” is great when done in moderation. A lower cut blouse alludes him to what is to come without being too much. A belly shirt which is low cut as well on the other hand makes him view you in a whole other light.

What are some of your staples when going out on dates?

I am fortunate enough to live near my SD and was able to get snowed in with him. Snowball fights, and modified snow angels* were on the agenda. There was much quality time spent on the couch, sipping wine and cooking dinner.

If you are not as fortunate to get snowed in with your SD there are some things you could do to show him you miss him. For example taking a pictures of said modified snow angels and sending it to him. Or cooking up a batch of cookies and presenting them to him next time you see him.

However, if you do not have an SD do not despair. This is the perfect time to start initiating contact with one of the many SDs on sugarsugar.com. Most of them are stuck inside as well. Some have gotten a snow day due to many offices closing. In other words, they are free to spend this time communicating with you and taking steps towards meeting. Be proactive! Who knows maybe by the next snow storm you will have a brand new SD to get snowed in with.

*modified snow angels – snow angels in your bathing suit

Now that we have the superbowl out of the way, there is another important holiday coming up: Valentines Day. Some of us will be celebrating Mistress Day instead, this holiday takes place on Feb 12th or 13th.

You know you are in an arrangement when you begin to worry what to get your SD/SB for the occasion.

It seems like an SD might have an easier time picking out an appropriate gift for his SB. After all most SBs already know what they want*.

For those SB’s who are in an arrangement with a married SD extra measures need to be taken. When giving go for something that can go unnoticed by an outside observer. A monogrammed pen is a safe choice especially for the Business Man SD. Of course, we all can go the obvious route. Getting all dolled up and taking a few sexy photos of yourself. Perhaps greeting your SD at the doorstep in nothing but your finest french lace cut lingerie. After all the mental image from that night will last him a long long time.

What are some gifts that you will be giving your SD/SB?

What would you like to receive?

*hint: Shiny new pair of Choose sure go a long way

Lately, I have been noticing something different at Starbucks. Usually there is at least one table occupied by an older gentleman and a much younger stunning lady. Prior to being a part of the secret sugar society I would have written this off as “Dad-Daughter” bonding. Except now I know better.

Curious as to whether my suspicions are correct one evening I decided to sit at a near by table and observe.

Soon enough it was apparent that this was very much a first meeting. The usual questions were covered, the flirty looks were exchanged. It was obvious to me that there would be a second date. The gentleman asked the young lady if she would be interested in seeing him again. To this she replied “Sure, but we need to talk about my allowance before that happens.” He shifted uncomfortably and told her that this conversation is better left once they have gotten to know each other better.

She was persistent, a sure tale sign of a novice sugar baby. Soon enough most of the other Starbucks occupants were aware of what was going on. She went into detail about her needs. Once she was done, the gentleman got up and wished her a good life.

What went wrong there? Well it is a typical rookie mistake, pushing for the close before the premise has been established. The man was very much interested in the young woman. Had she accepted the second date I am sure he would have proposed an arrangement then. However, she pushed him into an uncomfortable zone. Sugars, be mindful of the other person’s feelings and needs. If they are uncomfortable with a topic it is better left alone. More importantly, do not have the allowance conversation in sugarbucks where everyone can hear! No matter what, discretion is key when it comes to sugarbowl.