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Sugar Daddy Dating and Sugar Baby Personals

While we’ve managed to pigeon-hole sugar daddies into various corners and typecasts, alas, it’s the sugar babies turn now.

On a somewhat side-note, I’d really like to get away from the whole “sugar daddy/sugar baby” terminology entirely, but I haven’t yet coined an alternative. For as ‘normal’ as the lifestyle is, I would say there’s a terrible slant and misconception surrounding it, one that causes even the heaviest of hitters to hide behind the cloak of discretion and shame. As soon as I figure out a different label for this type of dating and the players involved, besides the obvious one: “dating”, you’ll be the first to know (I’m sure you’ll be waiting on the edge of your seats). If you can think of a cleverer alternative, hats off and a free all-access membership to you!

I’ve asked you sugar babies to think about what it is you want from this unique kind of relationship when you’re creating your profile, before you dive in. Be that as it may, I must ask you to consider this question once again. You see, the more men and women are on the same page when they enter any type of interpersonal relationship or arrangement, the more successful the outcome. I apologize for the redundancy, but let this SD/SB scenario explain the said theory:

• Sugar daddy wants mistress and finds hot sugar baby (a 10 on the hotness scale, and 20 years younger than he) from the sugarsugar.com profile database
• They exchange a few emails, blah-blah-blah (this part can seem to cause drawn-out suffering)
• They meet. They have a few drinks.
• She thinks he’s great, he thinks she’s great
• He tells her he’s married
• She doesn’t act as surprised as she actually is
• They part ways at the end of their date
• He contacts her to meet up again
• She blocks his profile and swears off sugar dating for good

With wasted time (at least 3-4 weeks), energy, and hard-earned money, they both walk away in distaste. The SB apparently wanted a long-term arrangement (she never mentioned in her profile) with possible relationship, the SD did not (obviously the marriage speaks to that). The SD also kept his current relationship status (a small detail), to himself.

How do you prevent this arrangement bust? Be clear about what you seek in your SD and SB ventures on your profile. If you don’t know, say you don’t know and spend time figuring that part out! The sooner you know, the more pleased you’ll be with your dating experience.

Refer to the following guide to discern how-to make your profile match your wants and/or needs:

The Sugar Baby Type Guide

The Type: Innocent/Naïve SB

Profile: Play the good girl, the untouched, and the pure in need of guidance for a little spoiling.  Be less aggressive with your words and actions. Make sure your photos match the type, less provocative and cute pics will attract the SD you desire, (some SBs fall into this category simply due to a lack of experience or uncertainty of what they want or how to get it) nonetheless, they still achieve the same resulting characteristics: easy going, easily manipulated, and highly sought after by many sugar daddies.

The Type: Gold Digger SB

Profile: Explain what material goods you want from this arrangement with appropriate dollar amounts for prospective SDs. To this Baby there is no such thing as too extravagant or too spoiled.  Name brands, big tastes, and big price tags are not only wanted, but expected – and why not?  Don’t you deserve it?  However, everything must be done in moderation and self-restraint is important.  Expect or demand too much, and you may give your Daddy a drought in his wallet.

The Type: Seeking Marriage SB

Profile: Cleverly state how you want to explore dating SDs and hope it will lead to more. Explain in words how you are not looking for a casual date or fling, and you want a meaningful and committed relationship.  Wanting security and knowing you’ll be well taken care of for the rest of your life is like the warm blanket you’ve always wanted to keep you warm.  This will only work if you truly seek love and companionship, and remember that some SDs want nothing to do with this type of arrangement.

The Type: Business SB

Profile: You are ambitious and goal-oriented, girls, you have plans. Tell prospective SDs what you intend to accomplish and what you want to learn from him.  This SB sees opportunity not only in the Daddy himself, but those he surrounds himself with in order to network, excel, and advance her own desires.

The Type: SB with Boyfriend

Profile: State in your profile that though you have a boyfriend, you seek what he cannot provide. This SB seeks a Daddy to provide sugar for that sweet tooth, mainly seeking tangible items like money, clothing, jewelry, etc.  Let it be said, however, that if you play with fire you may turn sugar into crème brulee, which can be a good or bad thing depending on whether you like this slightly charred custard.

Remember SB/SDs: There is no harm in being honest and upfront with who and what you want, put it out there and you just might get it!