If you get out of line, either by being a bad kitty, or by the usual mouthing off, you can expect a bruise or two. Here or there.
What happened? “I fell down the stairs,” right? It’s certainly a welcomed change when the answer is; “I got punched in the eye.” My girlfriend told me this after she had gone on a date with a man NOT from SugarSugar.com.
I stopped what I was doing. “Wait, what? Some guy punched you in the face?” (Causing her black eye)
I thought she was pulling my leg…Who punches a woman in the face, on the second date no less. She tells me that the first date was coffee and they had a connection and a great time. She said there were no red flags, I disagreed… She met him through Match.com, that’s the red flag in my book. Anyway, then she tells me that they met at a restaurant for a few beers and dinner. She said things still were going well (The next red flag to me was the multiple beers on the second date).
Then my friend went to leave, so he walked her to her car, (The restaurant was busy so she had to park a little ways away, in a darker area no less). Being the lady that she is, my friend was going to go home, not over to this dudes house. But before she went to do that, they made out some, things got a little hot and heavy, and then she wanted to leave before she could get talked in to going home with this guy. She played coy with him, teasing him a little like girls are so good at doing. Unfortunately he didn’t want her to go home, he wanted her to come over to his place. But most men would, right? Things get hot and heavy and we pull the rug out from underneath them, leaving them with blue balls. I’m pretty sure that men don’t take kindly to that, and as my girlfriend went to escape his tight embrace, he came around with a right hook, throwing her on the hood of her car. He took off running before she could peel herself off her vehicle enough to react in any sort of way…
A black-eye. She asks me why. Says she never saw it coming. I tell her it’s because she didn’t meet a sugar daddy through SugarSugar.com. I tell her at least going into any sort of sugar daddy sugar baby relationship, there’s mutual respect and no expectations. I conclude that that’s not the case with those ‘other’ sites, that they’re a host of red flags.
I told her that the moral of the story was not to get out of line, that she deserved it a little. “At the very least,” I told her, “I hope you learned your lesson. Don’t be stupid, and don’t get out of line little sugar baby.” –I’m jus sayin’
TooSpoiled writes: Diamond watch from Mr. World Traveler.
SugarCookie writes: Christmas present from my sugar daddy, a diamond tennis bracelet with diamond earrings.
LatinMama writes: My first sugar baby purchase, Gucci Purse!
Hotbod writes: I love Birthday's, Louis Vuitton and purse from Mr. Beemer.
Chocolatelove writes: One of my many shopping sprees with my sugar daddy, Christian Louboutin and a diamond necklace.
Sweetness69 writes: All I have to say is I love being a sugar baby!
Are you telling me you advocate a woman getting her ass beat? That man had no right to beat on her like she was a dude! She didn’t get hit because she met him on a non sugar daddy website. She just happened to meet an abuser who could sign up as a sugar daddy on SugarSugar right now. I liked your blog and even had it on my blogroll. Not anymore! Promptly removing your blog from my site now.
Babe in Sugarland,
I definitely do not advocate any woman, friend or foe, getting their behind beat. I just wanted to express my concern for any woman that goes on so-called dates with men from websites in general that they do not know them from anyone else and they should be extra careful…I hope we can all learn from my friend’s experience, I do promote sugar daddy dating though because I think it’s more honest than other types of dating.
I wonder, do they pay you extra each time you promote ‘SugarSugar’? I think you laid it on a bit thick. This is not a tidy morality tale about the dangers of alcohol and ‘other’ sites. This could happen anywhere. Yes, even at sites other than “those ‘other’ sites”. The world is not us vs. them.
Hazelseyes,
I actually laid it on thick because I do, in-fact, get paid to promote sugarsugar.com (Click here to go to site) Thank you for pointing out (sugarsugar.com) the dangers of this happening anywhere. It is not a tidy morality (sugarsugar.com) tale, but it is a tale of the dangers of alcohol, (sugarsugar.com) and meeting men period. We sites are all in this together, just trying to keep it real and share experiences from (sugarsugar.com) different perspectives. Woo, I just made a lot on that one! $$$